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Origin of the “Healing Statement”

By Mary Ellen Elggren

President of the Brigham Young Family Association
 

The Healing Statement

Joseph, Jr. and Emma
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In the spring of 2007 Kari Robinson, Historian of the Brigham Young Family Association, received a communication from Michael Kennedy, President of the Joseph Smith Jr. Family Organization. It was a request to send a representative to the Joseph Smith Jr. Family reunion in June to present an apology to the descendants of the Prophet. Officers of the Brigham Young Family were unclear about the purpose and need for such an apology, and wondered if “apology” was the right word. However, they were willing and in agreement to respond in a useful and appropriate way.

I had just been installed as President-elect of the Brigham Young Family Association, and I agreed to contact Elder Dallin Oaks for some guidance, as Elder Oaks had spoken in detail to the family several years earlier about the reasons for the rift that had developed between Brigham Young and Emma Smith following the martyrdom of the Prophet. Elder Oaks responded immediately with reference materials from his talk which covered among other things Emma Smith’s efforts to legally acquire properties in Nauvoo, and her denials of the institution of plural marriage by her husband. Given the monumental challenges faced by President Young, he had little patience with anyone who detracted from the well being of the saints and the fledgling Church. Much to everyone’s regret, this included Emma Smith. His stewardship was to continue the work that had been set in motion by the Prophet, and he did it against all odds, and he did it very well indeed.

Elder Oaks concluded his letter saying that he had included a positive statement from Brigham Young about Emma Smith (rare for him) which he found in his folder though he hadn’t used it in his talk. He hoped it would be helpful. In 1852 in a public meeting, Brigham Young had said, “…What of Joseph Smith’s family? What of his boys? I have prayed from the beginning for sister Emma and for the whole family. There is not a man in this church that has entertained better feelings towards them. Joseph said to me, ‘God will take care of my children when I am taken.” They are in the hands of God, and when they make their appearance before this people, full of his power, there are none but what will say – “Amen! We are ready to receive you.’”

Elder Oaks gave permission to use any and all of what he had enclosed, but about the apology, he could offer no counsel. I sat with my head in my hands wondering what to do when my daughter suggested that I just write an apology. Suddenly words filled my mind. I turned to my word processor and typed as fast as I could. I was taking dictation from outside of my own head. When I was done, I read it, and tears filled my eyes. I breathed an audible thank you, not knowing to whom I was speaking. Inexperienced in such overt manifestations, I was amazingly calm. The veil was very thin, and I sensed an urgent need and concern. It was clear that I had been drafted into service for something I didn’t fully understand.

I have since learned that much like the challenge many people have as they investigate the Church in accepting the Prophet Joseph Smith, the descendants of the Prophet have a similar challenge in accepting Brigham Young because of the false traditions about him passed down through their generations. They are coming into the Church, but they must come to terms with President Young as a Prophet of the Lord, and he is surely nearby and interested in helping them to succeed. It seems that Brigham is assisting Emma in gathering her children to bring them into the covenant. As Brigham Young’s descendants, we are committed to help, for Emma can have no peace until all her descendants have their chance to choose for themselves. It’s time to let go of the hurtful things of the past. At the very least, we owe this to the Prophet Joseph Smith, and after all we are all one family, the Lord’s family.

**The Healing Statement**

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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Updated 20 April 2008